Your heartbeat is racing. Your palms are sweating. If you notice that feeling of irritability/fear in certain scenarios, it can be tempting to get as far away as possible. You may avoid the uncomfortable situation now, but what happens when you are exposed to something similar in the future?
If you continually recede into your comfort zone, your mind can process feelings of positivity about your choice. This unwittingly tricks your brain into believing that avoidance is the right thing to do. However, it only makes your fear worse. If this sounds like you, Exposure Therapy may be able to help.
It’s not uncommon to fear being exposed to an object, person, situation, or activity. We are certain you know someone who has or has had a fear of one of the following:
- Medical visits
- Fear of needles
- Dogs, cats, and other pets
- Vehicle-related fears
- Public speaking
- Eating in public
- Food avoidance
- Introducing new foods
- Dining out
Or, you may fear something else entirely…
You may ask yourself, “Why bother to address my fear of something I don’t encounter often?” Perhaps your feeling of trepidation around dogs doesn’t currently impact your life in obvious ways. There are situations in which it might in the future. Maybe your boss decides to adopt an office pet. Or, your fear of dogs prevents you from getting closer to a significant other who is an animal lover. How would you handle those situations? It’s even possible your fear impacts you in ways you don’t quite realize yet. Hyperawareness is one very common issue and a possible cause of frequent anxiety.
If you’re aware that your fear has created a more routine problem for you, you already know how much it is impacting your life. Whether it is declining invitations to your friend’s child’s birthday parties year after year because a clown might attend, or certain fears, that can have a deep toll on your physical health, such as phobias about healthcare-related activities.
The path to learning how to get through and get past these difficult moments of anxiety is not always comfortable, but it is possible. Exposure therapy can help, and our therapists are here to help you achieve the changes that you desire.
What is exposure therapy, and is it right for me?
Exposure therapy is a form of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) designed to help you confront your fears about objects, activities, or situations. Don’t worry – we will never ask you to be exposed directly to your fear unless you are ready! There are many ways to go about exposure therapy, and all are based on your skills and level of readiness. Here are some of the methods we might discuss:
- In-Vivo Exposure: Directly facing your fear in real life.
- Imaginal Exposure: Imagining the object, activity, or situation you fear.
- Virtual Reality Exposure: Exposing yourself to your fear via virtual reality.
- Interoceptive Exposure: Replicating physical sensations experienced during exposure in a safe and exposure-free setting.
Together, we will determine how you are most comfortable approaching exposure to your fear. This may include listing details about your experiences with anxiety and ranking them based on which ones cause the most discomfort. We will then discuss different ways of combating your fear, such as by flooding – initially tackling the most-feared aspects of your phobia – or by grading – fighting back against the least overwhelming aspects of your fear first. Exposure therapy is considered one of the most effective ways to reduce or eliminate phobias, and it is our goal to take it at a pace that is most comfortable for you while still improving thoughts, feelings, and reactions related to your fears.
Exposure therapy is not for everyone, but if you’re ready to face your fears, we’re ready to help. The fact that you are reading this is already a huge step! When you confront your phobias and anxieties, you will be ready to live a life filled with more joy, less stress, and greater possibility.
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